READERS MAIL: How Do I Live With A Man I Don't Love

Dear Ladun,

I read your blog every day and I want to commend you for a god job. My name is Mercy. I am a 29years old lady who is very successful in the corporate world. But this success seem not to be my portion in my relationship.

I met my first boyfriend online, I was 22(she just sent another mail that she meant 22. The story is real cus she is following your comments)years old and undergraduate still a virgin and I wanted to be loved. We got chatting and we told each other about ourselves. In the process I got to know that he is 11years older based in Dubai and already had a child out of wedlock. This didn’t deter our relationship as our love grew stronger.

He finally came to Nigeria to settle down and that was when I got disvirgined. Our relationship grew stronger and for the first time in my life I was selfless. And ready to do anything for him. This determination spoiled me to borrow him money on different occasions without complaining or even asking him to pay back. please not here LLBers that I was still a student so all these money was gotten from my parents. Click to continue..

3years into the relationship I discovered he started acting funny and started keeping secrets. But I decided to ignore them because I was so in love and could not bear the thoughts of losing him. After we had dated for like 5years I found out he re untied with the mother of his first child and that she was carrying his second baby. He tried to apologise but he was non-chalant about it and that was when I decided I have had enough and so I broke up with him.

2years had gone and I was not still in any relationship and my parents started showing concern because I am not getting any younger. A lot of guys asked me out after we broke up. But I wanted a Christian, a God fearing man so I declined. I finally met a guy in January that I think I like because he is a Christian and God fearing man. But I don’t love him as much as I loved my ex. I get irritated over little things he does. Things that don’t matter. The truth is he is a really good guy. A Christian and he is the kind of person my mother expects me to marry. 

My introduction is in a few weeks. And our wedding in 5months. It is certain that I am marrying this guy. But I still find myself thinking about my ex. I still love him. 

Dear LLBers how can I live with a man I don’t love. How can I tolerate him at home. Save a soul. The advice I need is how do I cope and tolerate him.

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Most men tell me that they love my lips. Some would even ask that a single kiss would be enough for them and all that.

SORRY GUYS But tight jeans are terrible for your testicles! They can make them shrink

Experts on Thursday revealed that the number of men suffering painful testicular problems is on the rise because of tight jeans.

Doctors have reported an increase in injuries being caused by the jeans, which are favoured by celebrities. Low fluid count and fungal infections are also being put down to the tight-fitting jeans.

A doctor said, ‘I have seen several cases of men who have twisted their testicles due to wearing jeans that are far too tight. My advice would be to make sure you leave plenty of room around the groin area and that your pants and trousers feel comfortable so you’re not being restricted in any way’. Men who wear tight or ill-fitting trousers or underwear which is restrictive around the groin area could be damaging their health. Oh well, you have heard it. You guys had better take to advice and don’t make them shrink, Lol.

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Sikiratu Sindodo spotted grooving

That actress Sikiratu Sindodo is back to her feet is no longer news, but that she is back on the social scene is indeed news. A lot of people would have thought the actress on getting back to her feet would reduce her social outings, but that is far from the truth. An eyewitness who spotted the actress yesterday night said she was back to her old ways. She was spotted at a bar in the midst of some men with a fast rising actress. ‘The manner and way the actress kept ordering for bottles of wine left a lot of other guests who also came to have fun in shock. She gulped three bottles of wine, finished a big bowl of cat fish pepper soup and also consumed Suya worth N2,000 naira immediately after the fish’, the eye witness concludes. Her actress friend who was also in her company did the exact he also said. The most shocking part of it all was that, on their way out of the fun spot, they ordered more bottles of wine displaying it like a gift from a party as they headed towards their car. A lot of people who witnessed this concluded indeed the actress as learnt practically nothing from her sickness and back to keeping the company of men, with some saying Yoruba actresses are all the same and nothing changes.

All I know is, we have LADIES and we also have ladies.