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30 NAIJA FACTS! Really???

This is what you get when some people sit down to match issues, lol. It has been going around on BB for days, since I got it a third time, I decided to share it. Funny really funny.

1. 90% of people who are indigenes of Ibadan, Oyo state have gaps between their teeth.

2. Adele hails from Ede Osun state. Full name Adeleye Adetokunbo

3. Only 18 people out of 18000 who registered passed Neco and Waec in Gombe state.

4. Females from Imo state Nigeria have more hair on their chest than the males.

5. The cost of living in Abuja, is more expensive than the cost of living in UK

6. Ibadan girls don't shave their P***y.

7. Nigeria has the highest number of musicians in the world.

8. Abuja girls are materialistic. Expensive but cheap.

9. Beware of Edo girls

10. Maiduguri girls have the longest hair.

11. Ijebu people fart all the time. Even while having sex.

12. Ibo girls are stingy and greedy.

13. Fulani girls have the longest tongue.

14. PH girls like it in the A**

15. Benue girls have the deepest *****.

16. There's a place called Sabo in every northern state in Nigeria.

17. Gwagwalada is the hottest place in Nigeria

18. Nigeria has the highest number of police officers in Africa

19. Osun state has the highest number of Yahoo boys in 9ja.

20. 4 out of every 5 edo girls has a connection in Italy.

21. Calabar girls don't want your money, all dey need is your energy.

22. Nigerians make up 1/8 of the population of Malaysia.

23. China's best market is Nigeria.

24. A man was recently sentenced to death by hanging for stealing a car radio, While Cecila Ibru was sentenced to 6 months for moving 150 billion

25. An average lagosian has his bath by 5:00pm.

26. An average Ibo man can smell money 100 meters away.

27. Nigerians are the highest users of slangs in Africa, 2nd only to USA in the world

28. Nigeria's president has d longest vehicle convoy in the world.

29. The most spoken phrase in Nigeria is "How far?"

30. Nigeria is the only country where everybody looks forward to hearing the First Lady speak.

Readers Mail: Love is not sex

Hey Ladun. I think you should share this. I think every woman should read this article.

This post is for you single women who are intelligent, articulate and self-confident. But despite all of your achievements in life, you wonder why love hasn’t found you. But in reality, love is all around you. Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is a profound sense of responsibility and respect for another human being. So when you care for anyone in your life; your parents, your siblings, your nephews — you are experiencing love. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that guy tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!

So how can you tell the difference between Love vs Lust (Dopamine)? Click to read more…

Picture this: you’re a single woman, intelligent, articulate, self-supporting. You have your own place, your car is paid off. You have a good job. You just don’t have a man to share your life with, and you’re tired of your girlfriends reminding you of that.

One night, while out clubbing with your girlfriends, you meet a handsome man in the club. He seems too good to be true. He winks and smiles at you. He comes over and introduces himself to you and your friends. He buys you and your girls a round of drinks. But it is obvious that he is really only interested in you. After some small talk, he asks you for your number. When he calls you the next day, you like the fact that he kept his word to call you. He’s a good conversationalist. He sounds interesting on the phone. You want to get to know him better in person. He asks you out on a date. You quickly accept. Your date goes well. He makes you laugh and you feel at ease in his presence.

He says all the right things. He picks up the check for the dinner. He walks you to your car. He’s a gentleman. His smile makes you melt. You want to see him again. You can’t wait for his next phone call. The next day, when he does call, you feel giddy inside, you feel elated. A warm euphoria sweeps over you when he compliments you. You can’t get enough of him.

On your next date, you feel comfortable enough to accept his invitation to accompany him to his apartment, where you both have wild, passionate sex — with a condom, of course. You can’t believe how in tune he is with your body. He touches you in places you never thought existed.

Within a month, you’re already making plans to spend the rest of your life with him. You begin tossing hints at him that you “want more from the relationship.” You practically sit by the phone waiting for him to call. You can’t stop talking about him to your girlfriends. “HE’S THE ONE,” you tell them. You’re unable to put a name to what you’re feeling since you’ve never felt it before. So you assume you are in love.

You are wrong.

All of the feelings and emotions that I have just described are the result of what is called a Dopamine Rush. By now, you should be pregnant, but he used a condom. Nature has been foiled, you are not pregnant and the “gentleman” is gone. He got what he wanted. He’s moved on to his next target.

Why is that we women get so caught up in our emotions once the Dopamine starts flowing in our brains? It is because our primary purpose on this earth is to be fruitful and multiply.

But human beings are complex organisms with the ability to make decisions and choices, which makes us stubborn about who we have sex with. So in order to break down our sexual inhibitions, and to make sex happen fairly quickly, Dopamine was introduced into our brain chemistry around the start of the Stone Age.

Dopamine, along with other sensitive brain chemicals, targets the pleasure center in our brains. It’s Nature’s way of reminding us what pleases us, so that when we experience a certain trigger again, we will want more of it.

Dopamine is the science behind all addictions caused by “triggers” that elicit favorable responses from us. Triggers are substances or things such as drugs, food, alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate, coffee, sex, men, women, etc.

When we have sex with someone that we like, Dopamine begins to flow and we want him more. It’s the same with drugs and alcohol.

So why is it that hookers, gold diggers and strippers seem to be immune to the effects of Dopamine? Why don’t they form deep, personal attachments to every man that they have sex with? It’s because the trigger for hookers, strippers and other sex workers is money — not sex or passion.

Sex workers — like drug dealers — understand the power of what they’re selling. The drug dealer’s proverb: “Don’t get high on your own supply,” applies to dealing with intense feelings too.

In other words, control the Dopamine, don’t let it control you!

Yes, ladies, it is possible to like a man, and to even have sex with him, without falling in love and losing yourself in him or her.

Dopamine has destroyed many lives, either through marriage (which often ends in divorce), or through addictions to drugs and alcohol.

When we’re under the effects of Dopamine, we don’t think clearly. Dopamine is as powerful as any street drug. If you understand the powerful effects of Dopamine — and how it can abruptly change your life — you can better control it.

So how do you know if it’s true love and not Dopamine? The answer is to have patience and wait.

Dopamine makes you blind and deaf to his BS! But if you give it time and wait; eventually, the Dopamine will stop flowing and your senses will become clear again.

A mother carries a baby for 9 months until she finally gives birth. This is the only time in life when the words “love at first sight” holds any true meaning.

Remember: it is impossible to form a deep, personal attachment to a man you have just met. Even moms “know” their babies for 9 months before they give birth and fall in love.

So if you meet a man, and within 2 months you begin making plans to spend your lives together because you think you’re in love — you are sadly mistaken. If it takes a new mom 9 months to form an attachment to her baby, it should take you that long, or longer, to form an attachment to a man (or to a woman).

In the meantime, while you’re in the Dopamine rush phase, you do NOT make any life altering plans with him or her! If you can, hold off on having sex until you no longer experience the hot, intense feelings for him or her. If you wait to have sex and he or she waits with you, then love has a better chance of developing between the two of you.

So let’s go back to that night in the club when you met that handsome guy.

After some small talk, he asks you for your number. When he calls you the next day, you like the fact that he is a good conversationalist. He sounds interesting. You want to get to know him better. He asks you out on a date, you quickly accept. Your date goes well. He makes you laugh and you feel at ease in his presence. He says all the right things. He’s a gentleman. His smile makes you melt. You want to see him again. You can’t wait for his next phone call. The next day, when he does call — you don’t answer.

That’s right: you let that phone ring. And when he calls you a few hours later, you look at the caller ID and you go back to doing what you were doing without answering the phone. In fact, you don’t answer the phone and you don’t call him for 2 weeks!

Now YOU are in control of the powerful drug called Dopamine. After 2 weeks of non-contact, the Dopamine will stop flowing and your senses will become clear again. You will remember that while he was talking to you in the club that night, he was glancing at one of your girlfriends, but you ignored those glances because you were in denial.

You will remember that when he bought that round of drinks for you and your girls, he asked one of your friends what she preferred to drink, but he didn’t ask you. You will realize that he was testing all of you to see which one of you was the easiest. He chose you as his easy target.

Don’t assume that because you haven’t spoken to him in 2 weeks that he will find another woman. He probably already had another woman when you met him. A man who is bold enough to approach you in a club and ask you for your number is experienced at approaching women. You aren’t the first woman he has approached, and you won’t be the last!

Photo of the Day: Actress Sikiratu Sindodo

Actress Sikiratu Sindodo don vex with her outfit,lol…. I think I like it though…. Back with a bang, lol… but what happened to her face? Rays from the camera? May be

Bobby Brown Excited About Coming To Nigeria

Last week, Lagos based Events Company -R28 Events officially announced plans to bring Bobby Brown and his former boy band to Nigeria. With the event just a week away, the question many fans and industry practitioners have been asking is “How did R28 Events get Bobby Brown to come to Nigeria at this time when many American artistes have developed a phobia for the country?”

 “We have been in talks with Bobby Brown and BBD’s team since last year, we even went as far as bringing the team to come see what Nigeria has for them, and they sure had a nice time. All we are trying to do is bring the good old times back. We are promising an evening of good music, unbelievable fun and an opportunity to relive the good old times” Gbolahan Balogun spokesperson for R28 told news men in Lagos this week.

And as fans and music lovers gear up for the biggest indoor concert this year, the producers have confirmed the full set of Nigerian artistes who will join New Edition to deliver a world class event. Bonafide Nigerian stars Banky W, eLDee and Omawumi will deliver electrifying sets at the Eko Hotel and Suites on Friday March 9, 2011 while the combo of 2face, Duncan Mighty and Burna Boy will set the Port Harcourt Polo Club on fire on Sunday March 11, 2012.

 “I am excited to go to Nigeria and I intend to give them a great performance, we are going to have fun in the motherland.” Bobby Brown says from his base in Boston last week.

Balogun says 39 members of New Edition’s talent, technical and management crew will leave their base in Boston on Tuesday March 6, 2012 to set up in readiness for New Edition’s arrival from LA on Thursday, March 8,. New Edition will arrive Nigeria with an 11 man crew including sound engineers, backup singers, security personnel, publicists and managers. The entire crew of 50 will work together in Lagos and PH to give Nigerians a rare experience of the New Edition classics.

This is the first time New Edition will be performing in Nigeria, a country where they have millions of fans and followers.  It is also their first time performing on the African continent. We are told they are beyond excited about this trip; looking forward to connecting with African fans and talents – with a clear promise to give Nigerians ‘the concert of their lives’.

Bobby has been touring the world with his group New Edition since last year. Although he cancelled a performance in honor of Whitney Houston the day she died, the event producers say “Brown considers performing as therapy to get him through a difficult time. He wrote to us last week that he’d like to do this concert in memory of Whitney, and we said fine”.

R28 Events is a Lagos-based events solutions company set up to deliver simple, insightful and creative solutions through events, experimental marketing and corporate hospitality. The company says they are organizing the two-city concert as a way of redefining the quality of events in the country. ‘This promises to be a world-class concert, not like anything you’ve seen here before. Both in terms of production, and the quality of talent…’

The Lagos and Port Harcourt concerts will be dedicated to Bobby’s ex-wife Whitney Houston who passed on February 11. 2012.

New Edition is made up of Ronnie Devoe, Johnny Gill, Ricky Bell, Mike Bevins, Ralph Tresvant and Bobby Brown. The group's hits include "Candy Girl", "Cool It Now", and "Mr. Telephone Man”

Produced by R28 events with support from Play Centre the concerts will hold at the Eko Hotel and Suites on Friday March 9, 2012 and at the Polo Club, Port Harcourt on Sunday March 11, 2012.